Bridal Shower for a Second Marriage

This is my second marriage. My friend wants to congratulate me by throwing a bridal shower.

This is my second marriage and my friend wants to throw me a shower. My mom thinks it is improper to have a shower. Should I have a shower or do something different?

Let’s face it. We all do not get it right the first time. Regardless of the circumstance (i.e. divorced, widowed etc.) Love may find its way to your door and you may find yourself being a new bride to be. Remember this is an exciting and memorable time in your life and you want to cherish it. A second bridal shower is totally up to you and your friends. If you are feeling up to the fun (and it will be a lot of fun) definitely do it. If the thought makes you feel uncomfortable, then consider being low key.

Should I have a bridal shower?

It may seem improper or greedy to have a bridal shower when it is the second time around.

My answer: It is not.  In my opinion bridal showers are celebrations that should be anticipated for any bride. You should have a bridal shower if it is your second marriage.

It is as appropriate to have a second bridal shower just a like having a second wedding. This is because it is a new situation. This is a new beginning and be celebrated and enjoyed just as much as the first bridal shower.

Guests at a bridal shower for a second wedding.

It would be best not to extend invitations to people that are not close friends and family.

The guest list for your shower should be an updated list of the bride’s friends and the couple’s close friends and relatives. There may be a lot of people who are new to the couple and may not have any knowledge of a previous marriage. It’s nice to invite those new friends because it gives them a chance to enjoy without knowing too much.