This blog post is all about green flags in a relationship.
Most people know there are some red flags to look for in a great relationship. But what about the green flags? This is specifically for romantic relationships, but these are also things to look for in people you are dating.
We will be sharing the most relevant green flags in a relationship that we think everyone deserves. These things, in our opinion, are non-negotiable. There are some people out there that are looking for a “higher quality spouse, but they don’t really know what to look for.
Obviously, outside of these big green flags, we know that there are different things that each person looks for when looking for a partner. In this blog post, you will find a list of qualities that really every decent person should have when pursuing someone.
On your journey through dating and getting to know people you get to see who they are and their emotional needs. We honestly believe that these are the universal green flags in a relationship.
Disclaimer: We are not relationship experts or dating coaches, so you might not agree, but this is what we find that works. If you are looking for a relationship coach, see this article from the Coach Foundation.
Green Flags in a Relationship
And we know people who agree and that say these are the qualities that they look for. We think that no one should lower their standards for anyone, no matter how much you like them.
Please remember that there is a difference between standards and expectations. For example, you will not find superficial things like “must be a millionaire” or anything like that.
1. Clarity
Clarity is a major green flag and a great sign for new healthy relationships. There are no mixed messages or confusion about their intentions. They make it clear that he/she is interested in spending time with you. This means that they take the time to see you, plan in advance, and make you a priority in their schedule.
2. Respectful
They treat everyone with respect which means you, their mom, family, siblings, friends, other acquaintances, and people he/she doesn’t even know.
Respect means treating others with kindness, compassion empathy, being inclusive, attentive, unbiased, and any similar characteristics. This is good to know in the early stage of the relationship.
3. Emotional Intelligence
They’re emotionally intelligent and responds with maturity to thing like anger. That means they are capable of working through their emotions.
You know that in an argument, they will not degrade you, insult you, raise their voice, or intentionally try to hurt you. They know that being angry is not a justification for any of those things
4. Attentive
Attentiveness is a good sign if your partner is in it for the long haul. You won’t have to deal with someone who you constantly ask more of. You date someone who actively takes care of you, listens to you, pays attention, and is concerned about your needs.
5. Goal-Oriented
They are responsible, independent, and work hard. They show that they are motivated to succeed and passionate about what they are doing in life and with their time.
6. Makes You Feel Good
He/she makes you feel good about yourself. If you are going to be spending any time around anyone, it should be around someone who lifts you up and elevates your mood. They also help you feel safe and secure physically and emotionally.
They should give you compliments, reassure you, and encourages you. You should not spend time with someone or pursue someone who makes you feel less confident or make you doubt or question yourself. They should be your biggest cheerleader.
7. It Goes Both Ways
Make sure that you know this isn’t a one-way street. You must treat people how you want to be treated and you must also present these green flags to your partner as well.
This blog post was all about green flags in a relationship.
