Learn how to effortlessly renew your wedding vows with these tips and tricks.
A vow renewal is a very special time in a marriage. It is a chance to recharge the goals and values of the relationship. It enhances the love and feelings so much that it is almost as special as your wedding day. Here is all you will need to effortlessly renew your wedding vows.
In this blog post we will answer some common questions on how to renew your wedding vows. Then we will go through some ideas for a vow renewal that will be special and unique to a special couple.
What is a Vow Renewal?
A vow renewal is an event where a married couple updates or restates their wedding vows to each other. This is an informal event and way more laid back than a wedding ceremony.
Why should you renew your vows?
Renewing your vows could be done for multiple reasons. Some popular reasons are because a couple had a smaller wedding ceremony or they eloped. Another purpose for vow renewals are for anniversary milestones or to have their children witness their commitment to each other.
For example, if you are your approaching being married 25 years or wedding anniversary coming up, you could celebrate with family and friends by renewing your vows.
A very personal reason to renew your vows is if you and your significant other has gone through something very trying and want to celebrate that accomplishment. When you go through struggles and are able to overcome them, why not celebrate your love by renewing your vows?
Invitations
The invitations you send out for a vow renewal are the only formal things you should have. They should resemble a wedding invitations and look like a fancy event is going to take place. You’d want to send invitations about 1-2 months ahead of the event. Maybe earlier if you know people are traveling.
Attire
Here is everything you need to know about what to wear to a vow renewal. The main thing is that you can wear whatever you want. If you decide to have a theme, then wear something related to that theme. Since it is not a wedding, you do not have to look like you’re getting married.
When picking your outfit for your vow renewal, know that it does not have to be extravagant. Wearing a nice dress is suitable for this occasion. You do NOT need to wear a wedding dress. You could wear something white though but it is not mandatory.
For a man renewing his vows, he could go formal and wear a suit and tie or casual wear. For example, if your wedding vow renewal is taking place at a beach, then wear a pair of khaki shorts and a polo shirt. It all depends on the theme of the vow renewal.
A bouquet is optional for a vow renewal, but it is a nice touch. It would still make you feel special for the event. Even though you will have a bouquet doesn’t mean it has to be plain. Go all out when it comes to your bouquet.
Guests
Invite whoever you want to your vow renewal. It could be a small group or a large group. It depends on how many people you want to witness your event. You could invite your original wedding party (they are not apart of the actual vow renewal) so they could see an update of your marriage. You could also invite family members, friends and co workers.
Ceremony
You could have an one host or “officiate” the vow renewal. We use the word “officiate” very loosely because there is no legal conditions of a vow renewal. You could have a friend pastor, mentor, counselor or relative perform the ceremony. It is completely up to you.
You don’t need to walk down the aisle at a vow renewal. Some couples walk together or come together from the sides. If you decide to re-write you own vows, see some ideas in this blog post. Or you could restate the vows you took on your wedding day.
Exchange the rings just like you did on your wedding day. If you;re luck, you may have new rings to exchange for your vow renewal
Reception
You must have a reception! Besides, that is the main reason for a vow renewal. The party that takes place afterwards is when you celebrate all of the accomplishments of your marriage. Be sure to dance, drink and have a wonderful time.
Gifts
Gifts are not required for a vow renewal. You do not need to have a gift registry because a vow renewal is not a gift giving occasion. Instead of gifts, have some special guests share a favorite memory about the couple.
Conclusion
So why are you getting your marriage vows renewed? Is it for an anniversary? Did you elope and want to have a big celebration? Did you get new rings? Or do you just want to party with close friends? Please let us know in the comment section below.
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