The bridal shower and bachelorette party are two important events that occur prior to the wedding date. They both are very popular events. It is a great opportunity for the bride to be the center of attention. But which event is better? This article will explore the two worlds of the bridal shower and bachelorette party.
Planning
Bridal Shower Planning
A bridal shower takes a lot of planning. A bridal shower typically occurs at the hostess’s house or at a venue. A bridal shower happens between 4-6 weeks prior to the wedding. There are a lot of thing s to plan for a bridal shower like the location, theme activities, decorations and food. A bridal shower is usually planned for a large group.
Bachelorette Party Planning
A bachelorette party takes place about a month before the wedding. A bachelorette party is planned for a small group and takes place at a club or hotel. The activities are pre-determined and a host is not necessary.
Guests
Bridal Shower Guests
Traditional invitees to a bridal shower are your mom, groom’s mom, aunt, friends, cousin and close family members of the bride and groom. Bridal shower guests are mainly women but there are jack and Jill options.
Bachelorette Party Guests
Close friends of the bride. Typically the bridesmaids and the maid of honor are invited to the bachelorette party.
Costs
Bridal Shower Costs
Consider the costs of decorations, venue, menu and theme. You will have to determine the costs of supplies, prizes, party favors and the gift for the bride.
Bachelorette Party Costs
Buy your ticket or club charge and you are done. You also have to pay for food and drinks.
Expectations
Bridal Shower Expectations
You must get a gift for the bride. Typically women or if it is a jack and Jill bridal shower, men and couples are invited.
Bachelorette Party Expectations
You are not required to buy a gift for the bride to be. You may have to buy her a drink or two.
Bridal Shower Pros and Cons
Pros of bridal shower
- A lot of activities for guests.
- More control.
- All for the bride to feel special.
Cons of bridal shower
- A lot of planning.
- Large group to please.
- A lot of expenses.
Bachelorette party
Pros of Bachelorette Party
- Informal. Not a lot of planning.
- Small group.
- Do not have to buy gift.
Cons of Bachelorette Party
- Less control.
- Not very exclusive.
- Not a lot of flexibility for family or Jack and Jill option.
Conclusion
In conclusion, a bridal shower is a formal event for friends, acquaintances, and relatives. A bachelorette party is less formal and for the bride and her closest friends. At a bridal shower, guests are obligated to bring gifts. At a bachelorette party, you pay for your own food drinks, and entertainment, and you are not required to bring a gift. If possible, it is highly recommended that the bride have both events so that she could get the best of both worlds.
Which event do you like the best bridal shower or bachelorette party?